trouve-moi: Call me crazy, but I think I’m gonna take up yoga — not to get fit or feel relaxed, but only to increase my flexibility during sex. My priorities are totally out of whack. I think that priority is right on!
Are there any State of Date readers in Socal? What is the deal with OKC out here? It’s just so awfulsome and tragic I’m thinking that maybe the sample set is skewed or something. In NYC nearly everyone we know is on the Cupidz and so that’s a lot of normal people with some funny ones in the mix. Apparently in the LA area… that is not the same case. I re-enabled my account...
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guyinthestreet: Ladies. Men. When you are in charge of making plans you do what ever the fuck you need to do to be there (barring any extreme physical/mental distress). Example. I got asked out last weekend to go on a date tonight. Last night said date asker had her birthday. Got… Concur 100%
Note To The Ladies
guyinthestreet: Wear my button downs. I don’t give a shit if you walk into my closet and take a clean one off of my hanger. Just do it. Good. To. Know. See, I always thought this was super-cheesy and maybe guys didnt actually like it. But then one person set me straight with a comment much like the one above. Supersexy! -RS
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Say Cheese!- Reader Submission
Imagine you are dating someone for almost 4 months. He knows how important your birthday is for you considering you are all alone in this country, no family, no blood. The day of your birthday you wake up all happy, excited about what to expect. He shows up at your apartment door with a bag of groceries, and you are like “Awww gonna cook me breakfast?’ He says “There you go...
LA OKC < NYC OKC
I have officially gone from unimpressed to horrified by the male population of OKCupid in the Los Angeles area. You thought NYC was challenging? It’s not nearly as upsetting, unsettling and unattractive as what’s happening in Socal. Datebynumbers recommends we all head to Colorado. I’m so into that (when that whole fire situation calms down), who else wants in?
#7 there’s a difference between a dating ‘red flag’ and a dating ’tell.’ for...– Alexi, on IMBOYCRAZY
Do's and Dont's- reader submission
Congrats State of Date on your Brian Lehrer include! I like your pragmatic, matter-of-fact approach to dating advice, so I lean towards Option 1. If you have a list that expands beyond the expected “use attractive photos” or “be yourself in the written profile”—something that has more depth—it’ll be great for a wider audience to hear. Granted, the segments have been...
In The Street: 1 Date Down 2 More To Go →
guyinthestreet: So even though my “date” on Friday jumped ship, I have two more this week. One of them I have been dying to ask out for a very long time and finally got the balls to just asked her. That one is Thursday and surprisingly I got asked out on Friday. The plans: Thursday: She wants me to pick… Ladies.. what do you think?
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trouve-moi: I don’t even care today; my lady parts hurt — I need to do something nice for myself. Oh yeah, what’d you get into? Do tell!
Women Make Up The Craziest Excuses
guyinthestreet: Friday nights “date” went well until Saturday morning when I got a text that said: You are a great guy, but I don’t think its going to work. I’m not looking for a relationship right now. I should also add we were making out I had my hand up her skirt in the park and asked her if she wanted to go back to my place in which she told me no and it would have to wait for at least...
Why anyone would lie about themselves - especially about their appearance -on a...– “Truth & Beauty” from Brooklyn, when asked about anecdotal statistics re online dating, during the Brian Lehrer show’s Broadband Love segment Yes, it’s baffling but people do it all day long. Why else would our survey need the “5’8 does not equal 5’11”...